Dear Elizabeth: How do you load a dishwasher? -Karen, married and fighting about it, from Colorado Dear Karen: I'm curious if every marriage either starts off with this struggle or ends with it. I'm not sure. It's a messy battle if you are in it. The dishwasher wars might begin with something along the lines of this: One person doesn't feel like the dishwasher is loaded right and so they proceed to rearrange everything the other person has just done. I'm sure the