Ask Elizabeth: 3 Life Lessons from Taylor Swift About Authentic Success

Dear Elizabeth,

I keep hearing about Taylor Swift and her incredible success. She seems to handle so much — career changes, public criticism, even setbacks — and still comes out stronger. What do you think makes her so inspiring, and what lessons can someone like me take from her life?

Sincerely,

A Curious Swiftie

Dear Curious Swiftie,

Taylor Swift is more than a global superstar — she’s a masterclass in authenticity, reinvention, and resilience. What I admire most about her is her ability to stay true to herself while navigating constant change. She’s faced criticism, setbacks, and public scrutiny, but rather than letting those moments define her, she’s chosen to define herself.

Here are three lessons we can all learn from her:

1. Define Success on Your Own Terms

Taylor didn’t let the music industry’s expectations box her in. She shifted from country to pop, and now even alternative sounds — proving that success isn’t about fitting in, but about growing into what feels authentic. In your own life, ask: What does success look like for me? Your definition may change, and that’s okay.

2. Turn Setbacks Into Comebacks

From losing ownership of her early music to facing harsh criticism, Taylor has turned challenges into fuel. Her re-recorded “Taylor’s Versions” aren’t just albums — they’re statements of empowerment. We can all use setbacks as stepping stones rather than roadblocks.

3. Stay Rooted in Connection

Taylor’s bond with her fans is legendary. She remembers that success isn’t just about her — it’s about the community she builds and the way she makes others feel. Whatever your path, remember: the relationships you nurture will carry you farther than achievements alone.

As I shared in The Success Guidebook (where Taylor makes an appearance in Chapter 7), true success is never one-size-fits-all. It’s about authenticity, adaptability, and courage. And like Taylor shows us, it’s about leading with heart, no matter how loud the world gets.

So, the next time you feel pressure to be someone you’re not, remember this: you don’t have to play the world’s song. You can write your own — and sing it at full volume.

With gratitude,

Elizabeth